For an introductory pic, you could text, “How do you feel about sending selfies? I want to see your face, and I’m happy to send you pictures of me too. ” When getting consent for more intimate pics, you could say, “Hey, I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately. Would you be comfortable with exchanging NSFW photos?” If you haven’t met or gotten to know one another well yet, asking for revealing photos (or nudes) sends the wrong signal to a girl. Instead, ask her if she’d be comfortable sending a cute selfie or a pic with her favorite outfit.
Ask her a fun question, like “What’s your favorite way to treat yourself?” You can also make a note of her answer for the future. Ask her for a funny, less romantic pic. “What’s the most embarrassing photo on your camera roll?” Be ready to send her your embarrassing photo, too! Ask about the things that are important to her. “What is your biggest goal or aspiration in life?”
“Your eyes are so beautiful. Every time I look into them, it brightens my day! 😘” “I love your determination and intelligence. You’re so good at everything you do!”
If she’s trying on clothes, you could follow up with, “You have such great style! I’d love to see a pic of your new look 👀”. Even if she mentions a pet doing something funny, that could be your transition into getting pics. Say something along the lines of “Wow, I’ve got to see a photo of that!”
She might mention in a text that she’s about to take a bath or get ready for bed, and these are ideal moments to ask for a picture. For example, later at night you could text her, “Hey there! Do you have time for a bedtime selfie? 😉” To start off the exchange with a more intimate tone, you could say, “I’m about to get into bed, and I keep imagining that you’re here with me. Want to exchange photos?”
If this is your first time asking for pics, you could text her, “Getting to know you has been so great, but I’d love to put a face to this conversation! Would you mind sending a photo or two?” If you haven’t seen your girl in a while, you could write, “I miss seeing your beautiful face so much. Send me a selfie?” If you are trying to jumpstart a more steamy exchange (and you’ve made sure she’s into the idea), you could text, “I can’t stop thinking about you. 😳 Want to trade sexy photos?”
“I had the hottest dream about you last night. Can I tell you about it?” “What’s your fantasy? Tell me all about it 😜”
She might be more comfortable using an app like Snapchat, where the picture disappears a few seconds after being sent. Reassure her that she can leave her face out of steamy photos to put her mind at ease. Some people who send revealing pics keep their faces hidden to protect themselves.
“Wow, your smile in this photo blows me away! You’re beautiful. ” “You’re so gorgeous! 😍 Thanks for sending this pic. ”
Before you send a pic of yourself, make sure that she’s okay with receiving it. If she says “no,” don’t send one! You could text her, “Hey! I’d love to exchange photos. Can I send you one of myself to start?”
If she says no, you could respond with, “Hey, that’s okay! There’s no pressure at all to send a pic. And if you ever do feel like it, I’ll take any chance to see your beautiful face! 😊”
To pace yourself, start simple with cute selfies and everyday pics that she’ll be comfortable sharing before you graduate to asking for naughty photos. Make it clear to her that you’re willing to be patient. “I definitely want to see more pics of you, but only as much as you’re comfortable with. Would you be up for sending me a selfie sometime? 😊”
